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12-Week Life & Dating Coaching Program

Move Forward.

Know Yourself. 

Find Real Love.

A thoughtfully structured 12-week journey that blends personal growth and dating coaching — so you can step into your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and an understanding of yourself you've never had before.

WHAT THIS PROGRAM IS

Life coaching & dating advice,
woven together.

Most programs focus only on the dating side. This one goes deeper — because lasting change in your love life starts with lasting change in how you see yourself.

THE PROGRAM

12 Weeks. Three Phases.
One Complete Transformation.

Each week builds on the one before. Click a phase below to explore that part of the journey. Detailed session content is shared exclusively with enrolled clients.

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WEEKS 1-4

Know Yourself First

The foundation everything else is built on.

01

FOUNDATION

Who Are You, Really?

We start at the very beginning — not with dating, but with you. This week is about honest self-reflection, understanding how you've moved through the world, and setting the tone for everything that follows.

Focus: Self-awareness · Personal identity · Setting intentions

03

FOUNDATION

What You Actually Need

Most people date without a clear sense of what they truly need — not just want. This week gets underneath the checklist to uncover the values, needs, and relationship qualities that genuinely matter to you.

Focus: Core values · Non-negotiables · What love looks like for you

02

FOUNDATION

How You Love & How You're Loved

Explore how your past has shaped the way you give and receive love. Understanding these patterns isn't about blame — it's about building the self-knowledge that makes change possible.

Focus: Relationship history · Emotional patterns · How you connect

04

FOUNDATION

Seeing the Patterns

With clarity about who you are and what you need, we look at the repeating patterns in your dating life — not to judge them, but to understand them well enough to finally do something different.

Focus: Pattern recognition · Relationship cycles · The path forward

THE PROGRAM

This program is for people who are ready.

Not perfect — ready. Ready to look honestly at themselves, do the work, and show up differently in love.

YOU MIGHT BE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF...

  • You feel like you keep ending up in the same kinds of relationships, even with different people

  • You want a relationship but something always seems to get in the way

  • You're newly single and want to approach dating differently this time

  • You feel confident in most areas of life but dating leaves you uncertain

  • You're ready to do genuine inner work — not just get surface-level tips

  • You want to understand yourself better, regardless of where dating takes you

THIS MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT FIT IF...

  • You're looking for a quick script or shortcut to finding a partner

  • You're not open to reflecting on your own patterns or role in relationships

  • You're currently in an acute mental health crisis (please seek professional support first)

  • You aren't able to commit a few hours per week to the work between sessions

FIRST STEP

Tell me a little about where you are.

Before anything else, I want to understand where you're starting from — what's brought you here, what you're hoping for, and what feels most present for you right now.

Fill out this form and I'll reach out within 48 hours to schedule a free 30-minute consultation. No pressure, no commitment — just a conversation.

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Submit your intake form below

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Receive a scheduling link within 48 hours

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Join a free 30-minute consultation call

4

Decide together if the program is the right fit

Intake Questionnaire

All responses are confidential and used only to prepare for your consultation call.

WHERE YOU ARE NOW

CURRENT RELATIONSHIP STATUS

WHAT YOU'RE HOPING TO WORK ON

WHICH OF THESE FEEL MOST TRUE FOR YOU RIGHT NOW? (SELECT ALL THAT APPLY)
HOW READY DO YOU FEEL TO DO THIS KIND OF INNER WORK?
HOW DID YOU FIND THIS PROGRAM?
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