top of page

Become the Love You Keep Looking For

$14.99Price

You've read the words. Now it's time to live them.

 

Become the Love You Keep Looking For is the 77-page companion journal to Stop Chasing, Start Choosing — created for the moments when insight needs to become action. Because awareness is where healing begins, but the real change happens on the page, in the honest answers only you can give.

 

This isn't a journal you fill out once and forget. It's a guided experience that walks you through your patterns, your attachment style, your boundaries, and your self-worth — one reflection at a time. Across four parts and fifteen chapters, you'll move from recognizing the cycles that have quietly cost you, to rebuilding a relationship with yourself so strong that nothing and no one can take it from you.

 

What's inside:

  • Teaching pages that build on the lessons from the book
  • Reflection prompts to help you understand your patterns instead of repeating them
  • Journal pages for the thoughts you've never said out loud
  • Exercises to put boundaries, standards, and self-worth into practice
  • A "Letter From Future You" to close each chapter — a reminder of who you're becoming

Whether you're healing from heartbreak, breaking a cycle, or simply learning to choose yourself first, this journal meets you exactly where you are.

 

The goal was never to change them. It was always to know yourself. This is where that begins.

    Ashlea Heart

    Join the Ashlea Hoess Community
    Subscribe for a chance to win a free one hour session

    ASHLEA HOESS COACHING, LLC

    © 2026 by Ashlea Hoess. Design by Tao Websites

    bottom of page